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 Saturday, May 08, 2010  @ 11:41 AM 学会沉默有时候，你被人误解，你不想争辩，所以选择沈默。本来就不是所有的人都得了解你，因此你认为不必对全世界喊话。却也有时候，你被最爱的人误解，你难过到不想争辩，也只有选择沈默。全世界都可以不懂你，但他应该懂，若他竟然不能懂，还有什么话可说?那么，不想说话，就不说吧，在多说无益的时候，也许沈默就是最好的解释。 至少平静 在你跌入人生谷底的时候，你身旁所有的人都告诉你：要坚强，而且要快乐。坚强是绝对需要的，但是快乐？在这种情形下，恐怕是太为难你了。毕竟，谁能在跌得头破血流的时候还觉得高兴？但是至少可以做 到平静。平静地看待这件事，平静地把其他该处理的事处理好。平静，没有快乐，也没有不快乐。 不要想如果当初 人生是一条有无限多岔口的长路，永远在不停地做选择。如果只是选择吃炒面或炒饭，影响似乎不大，但选择读什么科系、做什么工作、结婚或不结婚、要不要有孩子，每一个选择都影响深远，而不同的选择也必定造就完全不一样的人生。生命中不可承受之情，就在于人生没有重来 的机会啊。如果当初如何如何，现在就不会怎样怎样。。。这种充满怅然的喃喃自语，还是别再多说了吧。每一个岔口的选择其实没有真正的好与坏，只要把人生看 成是自己。独一无二的创作，就不会频频回首如果当初做了不一样的选择。 保持单纯 因为思虑过多，所以常会把自己的人生复杂化了。明明是活在现在，却总是念念不忘着过去，又忧心忡忡着未来；坚持携带着过去、未来与现在同行，你的人 生当然只有一片拖泥带水。而单纯是一种恩宠状态。单纯地以皮肤感受天气的变化，单纯地以鼻腔品尝雨后的青草香，单纯地以眼睛统摄远山近景如一幅画。单纯地活在当下。而当下其实无所谓是非真假。既然没有是非，就不必思虑；没有真假，就无须念念不忘又忧心忡忡。无是非真 假，不就像在做梦一样了吗?是呀，就单纯地把你的人生当成梦境去执行吧。 控制情绪别浪费了今天的你，是不开心的你，因为有人在言语间刺伤了你。你不喜欢吵架，所以你离开；可是你只是离开了那，却没有离开被那人伤害的情境，因此你愈想愈生气。愈有气，你就愈没有力气去理会别的事情，许多更该用心去做去想去处理的事件，就在你漫天漫地的心烦意乱之中，被轻忽被漠视被省略了。因为，你只是一心一意地在生气。在情绪上做文章，这是对自己的浪费，而且是很坏的浪费。毕竟，生气也是要花力气的，而且生气一定伤元气。所以，聪明如你，别让情绪控制了你，当你又要生气之 前，不妨轻声地提醒自己一句：“别浪费了。” 悄悄悄悄地回归平静 曾经有一段时间，你心情低落，甚至懒得拉开窗帘，看着窗外的阳光。因此你当然也忘了去看看，窗台上那一盆每天都需要喝水的百合花。如此不知过了多久，总算有一天，你度过了心情的低潮，同时也想起了你的百合。天啊，可怜的花，它还活着吗？你战战兢兢地拉开窗帘，却见它迎风招摇，花颜可掬。原来在过去的这段日子里，你虽然忘了喂它喝水，老天却没忘了以雨露眷顾它呢。许多事物悄悄地在你的视线之外进行，而且悄悄地安排好了它们自己。天生万物，天养万 物，一切其实无须担心。。。 只要做的就是做好自己，不留任何遗憾
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Friday, May 07, 2010 @ 1:22 PM Suddenly, I feel tired of everything. Sometime, there is things which I do not know how to say out and what to say. Is just that the feeling there is not right and somewhere n some how dun koe where go wrong. What actually I want and I myself also do not know and there is no way what I can expect from others. I think I love to be alone and going to the beach and starring at the sea and there I am looking across the ocean dreaming away to a very far away place. Life is so meaningless
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Monday, April 19, 2010 @ 9:02 PM I have been coughing for few weeks and have seen doctor but is still not well. Whenever it cold and the cough will be back. Was so afraid that history repeat again and will keep on coughing for months and later my breathless come back again. Now will oso cough till dizzy. Must remember no more cold drink for me but I always forget leh. Hope I will get well soon. Looking forward to Wednesday.
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Monday, April 05, 2010 @ 1:27 PM I am so exhausted. My whole body is full of pain and ache. How I wish I can go for a whole body massage now. This few days has been running to and fro and carrying heavy things which made me 手软脚软 and is definitely worst than working. Finally the event is over and everything went smoothly. Although there is some disagreement and forgetting to buy this and that but all turn out to be well.
Yeseterday, we went to ECP to put 龙船and this is my 1st time see how people do and uncle and dad went into the water to push the boat in the water while others stand at the shore waiting to set the fire. There is a small motor boat attach to the龙船which will pull it into the open sea. I was wondering if the people in the motor boat are not afraid of the thing meh. Everyone will lead their own life as per normal and the next event we will have is Vesak day. There is about 2 more months from now.
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Tuesday, March 23, 2010 @ 10:42 AM Everything is not enough for me. Not enough time, not enough money and not enough sleep. What I want now is to take a good rest and relax. Feel like going to Batam for a good massage but cannot find the time and money. Although next week will be taking leave but it will be another busy week for me. Its will be another late sleep and early wake up, think will be worst than working. Hopefully next week, I will not lose weight. Must either maintain or gain abit more.Everyone say that I have gain weight and I myself also realised and I am happy to hear that. This prove that I am really happy now and carefree. I love my current life now.
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Monday, March 08, 2010 @ 5:24 PM During lunch, I heard another sad news that one of my colleague met with an accident during weekend and had an operation for 8 hours and was in ICU. Last two years when I 1st joined this company, he already had an accident and was very serious too. This is the second time and it was another leg that was injured. Luckily he has come round and was transferred to normal ward and we will be going to visit him today. It was a blessing that he is alright as last Friday I just heard from one of my colleague that his wife has pregnant and he is going to be a father. If thing happen to him, I cannot imagine what will happen to his wife as they are just newly wed. Hope he will hve a speedy recovery.
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@ 3:38 PM Just read a articles about an SKorean couple addicted to an Internet game about raising a virtual child were arrested for neglecting their real 3-month-old daughter and letting her starve to death. The couple spent between four and six hours every day at Internet cafes in Suwon, a city just south of Seoul, and bottle-fed their baby only once a day. I was wondering why there is such a parent who will really forget about their baby and the baby is just 3 months old. They can jolly well leave the baby at home alone while they went to internet cafe. It was such a heart-pain news. What kind of parents are they? Really feel like giving them two tight slap.If I have my own child, I will sure treat them like Prince or Princess. Sure dote them very much.
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Thursday, March 04, 2010 @ 12:05 PM I want to learn something but I do not have anything in mind. Thought of doing knitting but scare I will stop half way and it will be really waste of time and money. Need to occupy myself but yet do not know what to do. Sometimes I was thinking to myself what I actually want? Seems like I have a frickles mind. Haha
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Saturday, May 08, 2010 @ 11:41 AM 学会沉默有时候，你被人误解，你不想争辩，所以选择沈默。本来就不是所有的人都得了解你，因此你认为不必对全世界喊话。却也有时候，你被最爱的人误解，你难过到不想争辩，也只有选择沈默。全世界都可以不懂你，但他应该懂，若他竟然不能懂，还有什么话可说?那么，不想说话，就不说吧，在多说无益的时候，也许沈默就是最好的解释。 至少平静 在你跌入人生谷底的时候，你身旁所有的人都告诉你：要坚强，而且要快乐。坚强是绝对需要的，但是快乐？在这种情形下，恐怕是太为难你了。毕竟，谁能在跌得头破血流的时候还觉得高兴？但是至少可以做 到平静。平静地看待这件事，平静地把其他该处理的事处理好。平静，没有快乐，也没有不快乐。 不要想如果当初 人生是一条有无限多岔口的长路，永远在不停地做选择。如果只是选择吃炒面或炒饭，影响似乎不大，但选择读什么科系、做什么工作、结婚或不结婚、要不要有孩子，每一个选择都影响深远，而不同的选择也必定造就完全不一样的人生。生命中不可承受之情，就在于人生没有重来 的机会啊。如果当初如何如何，现在就不会怎样怎样。。。这种充满怅然的喃喃自语，还是别再多说了吧。每一个岔口的选择其实没有真正的好与坏，只要把人生看 成是自己。独一无二的创作，就不会频频回首如果当初做了不一样的选择。 保持单纯 因为思虑过多，所以常会把自己的人生复杂化了。明明是活在现在，却总是念念不忘着过去，又忧心忡忡着未来；坚持携带着过去、未来与现在同行，你的人 生当然只有一片拖泥带水。而单纯是一种恩宠状态。单纯地以皮肤感受天气的变化，单纯地以鼻腔品尝雨后的青草香，单纯地以眼睛统摄远山近景如一幅画。单纯地活在当下。而当下其实无所谓是非真假。既然没有是非，就不必思虑；没有真假，就无须念念不忘又忧心忡忡。无是非真 假，不就像在做梦一样了吗?是呀，就单纯地把你的人生当成梦境去执行吧。 控制情绪别浪费了今天的你，是不开心的你，因为有人在言语间刺伤了你。你不喜欢吵架，所以你离开；可是你只是离开了那，却没有离开被那人伤害的情境，因此你愈想愈生气。愈有气，你就愈没有力气去理会别的事情，许多更该用心去做去想去处理的事件，就在你漫天漫地的心烦意乱之中，被轻忽被漠视被省略了。因为，你只是一心一意地在生气。在情绪上做文章，这是对自己的浪费，而且是很坏的浪费。毕竟，生气也是要花力气的，而且生气一定伤元气。所以，聪明如你，别让情绪控制了你，当你又要生气之 前，不妨轻声地提醒自己一句：“别浪费了。” 悄悄悄悄地回归平静 曾经有一段时间，你心情低落，甚至懒得拉开窗帘，看着窗外的阳光。因此你当然也忘了去看看，窗台上那一盆每天都需要喝水的百合花。如此不知过了多久，总算有一天，你度过了心情的低潮，同时也想起了你的百合。天啊，可怜的花，它还活着吗？你战战兢兢地拉开窗帘，却见它迎风招摇，花颜可掬。原来在过去的这段日子里，你虽然忘了喂它喝水，老天却没忘了以雨露眷顾它呢。许多事物悄悄地在你的视线之外进行，而且悄悄地安排好了它们自己。天生万物，天养万 物，一切其实无须担心。。。 只要做的就是做好自己，不留任何遗憾
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Friday, May 07, 2010 @ 1:22 PM Suddenly, I feel tired of everything. Sometime, there is things which I do not know how to say out and what to say. Is just that the feeling there is not right and somewhere n some how dun koe where go wrong. What actually I want and I myself also do not know and there is no way what I can expect from others. I think I love to be alone and going to the beach and starring at the sea and there I am looking across the ocean dreaming away to a very far away place. Life is so meaningless
©copyrighted 2008 punch-that-goblin.co.nr
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Monday, April 19, 2010 @ 9:02 PM I have been coughing for few weeks and have seen doctor but is still not well. Whenever it cold and the cough will be back. Was so afraid that history repeat again and will keep on coughing for months and later my breathless come back again. Now will oso cough till dizzy. Must remember no more cold drink for me but I always forget leh. Hope I will get well soon. Looking forward to Wednesday.
©copyrighted 2008 punch-that-goblin.co.nr
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Monday, April 05, 2010 @ 1:27 PM I am so exhausted. My whole body is full of pain and ache. How I wish I can go for a whole body massage now. This few days has been running to and fro and carrying heavy things which made me 手软脚软 and is definitely worst than working. Finally the event is over and everything went smoothly. Although there is some disagreement and forgetting to buy this and that but all turn out to be well.
Yeseterday, we went to ECP to put 龙船and this is my 1st time see how people do and uncle and dad went into the water to push the boat in the water while others stand at the shore waiting to set the fire. There is a small motor boat attach to the龙船which will pull it into the open sea. I was wondering if the people in the motor boat are not afraid of the thing meh. Everyone will lead their own life as per normal and the next event we will have is Vesak day. There is about 2 more months from now.
©copyrighted 2008 punch-that-goblin.co.nr
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Tuesday, March 23, 2010 @ 10:42 AM Everything is not enough for me. Not enough time, not enough money and not enough sleep. What I want now is to take a good rest and relax. Feel like going to Batam for a good massage but cannot find the time and money. Although next week will be taking leave but it will be another busy week for me. Its will be another late sleep and early wake up, think will be worst than working. Hopefully next week, I will not lose weight. Must either maintain or gain abit more.Everyone say that I have gain weight and I myself also realised and I am happy to hear that. This prove that I am really happy now and carefree. I love my current life now.
©copyrighted 2008 punch-that-goblin.co.nr
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Monday, March 08, 2010 @ 5:24 PM During lunch, I heard another sad news that one of my colleague met with an accident during weekend and had an operation for 8 hours and was in ICU. Last two years when I 1st joined this company, he already had an accident and was very serious too. This is the second time and it was another leg that was injured. Luckily he has come round and was transferred to normal ward and we will be going to visit him today. It was a blessing that he is alright as last Friday I just heard from one of my colleague that his wife has pregnant and he is going to be a father. If thing happen to him, I cannot imagine what will happen to his wife as they are just newly wed. Hope he will hve a speedy recovery.
©copyrighted 2008 punch-that-goblin.co.nr
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@ 3:38 PM Just read a articles about an SKorean couple addicted to an Internet game about raising a virtual child were arrested for neglecting their real 3-month-old daughter and letting her starve to death. The couple spent between four and six hours every day at Internet cafes in Suwon, a city just south of Seoul, and bottle-fed their baby only once a day. I was wondering why there is such a parent who will really forget about their baby and the baby is just 3 months old. They can jolly well leave the baby at home alone while they went to internet cafe. It was such a heart-pain news. What kind of parents are they? Really feel like giving them two tight slap.If I have my own child, I will sure treat them like Prince or Princess. Sure dote them very much.
©copyrighted 2008 punch-that-goblin.co.nr
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Thursday, March 04, 2010 @ 12:05 PM I want to learn something but I do not have anything in mind. Thought of doing knitting but scare I will stop half way and it will be really waste of time and money. Need to occupy myself but yet do not know what to do. Sometimes I was thinking to myself what I actually want? Seems like I have a frickles mind. Haha
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学会沉默有时候，你被人误解，你不想争辩，所以选择沈默。本来就不是所有的人都得了解你，因此你认为不必对...
